Hello, I am a sub who recently go into the D/s community and this is the first rig I have purchased. You guys, this totally changes everything. The first night we used this, it was life changing. It felt ethereal. The padding on the cuffs is so comfy and the collar leather is soft so there is no chafing (no matter how rough you and your partner get). Seriously, thank you so so much for this wonderful addition to my life.