This was a total surprise. Was a bit intimidated by its size at first but once you start to explore the possibilities (and they are many), it quickly becomes your bff. Without lubricant, it makes for a fun caress of every part of your our you partner's body, including nipples, inner thighs, buttocks, etc. With lubricant, its insertable potential is... well, fascinating. I tried things I didn't think I would, solo or with my partner.