Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit in Purple

Tantus 4.67 4.67/5 Based On 12 Reviews

In Stock May 24, 2019 Please log in for wholesale pricing

Awesome Begiiner set for it's value

This is by far the most widely used toy in our bedroom. Easy to use, adjustible to almost ANY Waist and thigh size (I was skeptical being curvy), Easy to clean, and can accept OTHER plug/harness dildos.
I have used this on my partner (role reversal/pegging) but it can also be used without the purple padding comfortably and in the shower for wet fun (harness nylon dries quickly).
The included vibrator is nice, but because of the pouch location tends to not be felt largely except for the harness wearer. You may wish to purchase another separately, but this hardly detracts from the overall value of the set.
Make sure to grab some water based lube!


Hubby Loves it

Pretty solid piece of equipment. The small dildo is a little tooo small but the bigger one is perfect. Hubby loves how soft & smooth they are and I love my little bullet!


easy to use

Perfect for couples who want to experiment with role reversals, this beginner s kit is easy to use and not at all intimidating. Has adjustable nylon straps which is helpful.

Product description

Offering playful mates comfy, user-friendly styling and the choice of two ultra silky silicone dildos, Tantus's ever-popular (and for good reason!) Bend Over Beginner Kit proves itself extremely useful during pegging, girlsex and otherwise pleasurable situations.

The Bend Over's classic harness is soft against the skin and super-secure once all strapped in. Tug the nylon straps through sturdy plastic slider fasteners to reach that perfect fit. Set dead center of the velvety yoke, one of two included O-ring snaps into place. Slip an appropriately sized ring over the base of the included Silk Small or Medium, or give new purpose to a tried and true favorite.

Adding in some buzzy thrills, a discreet pocket sewn to the backside of Bend Over Beginner's yoke holds an included single-speed bullet vibe. Switch it up for a favorite mini vibe if the mood strikes, or slip it in a purse or pocket to satisfy on-the-go-stimulation cravings.

In premium Tantus silicone, the included dildos are easily cleaned and maintained- some warm soapy water or a good toy cleansing fluid works well for everyday clean-up. Always enjoy a good water based lubricant, silicone based lubes should be avoided, as should contact with other silicone toys and tools. The waterproof bullet vibe requires 3 LR44 cell batteries, which are included. The Bend Over Beginner Harness fits up to a 60 inch (152cm) waist.

*Measurements below represent the Silk Small dildo. The Medium measures approximately 4.9" (12.4cm) insertable and 1" (2.5cm) in diameer

  • Materials: Silicone
  • Special Features: Hypoallergenic, Phthalate-Free, Smooth Surface, Waterproof

SKU: TT-004008  |  UPC: 830539004008 |  MPN: hk4008 (12)

Ratings / Reviews


The harness was easy to adjust, fun two use and having two sizes is great for a beginner.



Husband and I bought this to play with. great for dp or 3 way. I love the size perfect for beginners. The harness can be a little uncomfortable and clumsy until you are used to puting it on.



5/5, I purchased the black version of this and I was pleasantly surprised.
I bought this for me and my girlfriend friend to use together, and I think it's important to mention we are a gay couple.
I want other couples to know that this is a great toy no matter the gender or ehm.... hole.
The harness is very comfortable, even if you're sensitive. It can also be worn over clothes.
The toys are good for experimenting but you may want to move up sooner then you think.
It's also easier on your dominant partner Ive discovered.
Good size even for anal vergins.



My wife and I bought this one semi drunk night. Of course we have done a fair amount of anal play but we were curious about pegging. This was a good introduction, the sizes were not at alll intimidating. It is absolutely fantastic. The only thing I wish is if the dildos were a bit longer. As with this length she won't be able to move/ thrust much without constantly coming out. I usually hold her in tight and with the vibration it gets us both off. All in all take the plunge you won't be disappointed.


my wife love it

Easy to use, my wife really enjoy. For couples like us that never used this before it was very useful.


great starter set

After revealing to my partner my desire for her to use a strap-on on me I did a lot of research before setting on this one. She had some fear about feeling un-feminine while wearing a strap-on but this one did nothing of the sort. Quite pleased with the product. The smaller one was quite small but the silk medium was perfect.


Amazing starter kit.

Great product! The harness is very customizable, and is nice and secure.
Small size is very small, but perfect for a beginner.


Excellent beginner

This is a great set for role reversal. My wife loves using it on me and Iove it as well!!

Only a small complaint as it is a great starter kit but we moved. From small to medium on the first time and have now ordered bigger toys in the first week! Keep. That in mind as you get this kit.
Amazing product and great to use!


Beginner kit

Nice kit well priced and good quality. Just a bit short for the smaller dildo. Every thing else is positive. Easy to use.