My new friend...My Sir can get me to squirt with just his hands, but I can't get my dominant hand curled enough in the right direction, and I've been dying to learn how to make myself do it. Enter my new glass friend!! I can hit the right spots now and my wrist isn't fatigued. Once it warms up, moving it around to a new spot after bit also provides another sensation. And....because of the handle angle (which can also be inserted instead), when the ball part of the end is curved opposite the g-spot wall, it provides some of the same sensations from anal penetration. Given it's size and angle, it can be used in a DP situation, either in the same hole or one in each. We've tried both and like that it provides pressure to both of us - and the fact that it's glass and very rigid helps maintain that pressure when needed. Overall, a great product for individual or joint use, and not gender specific.