I love this item so much I was worried my first one would break and I would be without so I bought a second one, I am a beginner with ball gags in general so this one to me is amazing, I can breathe easy, at first my jaw hurt but that went away, it's cute in general but I feel really sexy wearing it, the tightening around the head sits great as well, why not bring it into the toy box? You'll grow to love it