I definitely underestimated just how massive this thing is. I can t even fit the whole head in my mouth. I ll start with cons: there are none. Pros: super realistic (except for how gloriously huge it is), great coloring (brown one), good weight, suction cup works great on my wooden headboard, it fills my wife in ways she didn t know she could be filled and hits every spot and angle at the same time. Orgasms with this dildo are next level. My wife loves to peg me as well and has threatened to use this on me. I m terrified and excited at the same time, it will take a lot of work to get me ready for this. Even for my wife we have to use a lot of lube. This is huge and we have to take it slow to warm my wife up for this, but once it is fully in her vagina all bets are off! If you re looking for something to expand (pun intended) your sexual horizons than you should definitely buy this, it is worth every penny.