I was skeptical at first when the g/f bought this, I mean yeah im pretty open to try new things, but hot wax..i know that hurts.. BUT HOLD THE PHONE.. this was awesome, the wax melted down to become warm massage oil, a little of this goes a long way.. the smell filled the room as the candle slowly melted, I blew out the flame and slowly drizzled the special wax/oil on to my hand at first..was a perfect temperature, then slowly drizzled directly onto my gfs body and began a sensual massage.. relighting the candle when needed.. this was definitely a good purchase for us and we will be getting this one again.. suggestion: make sure you choose a scent that is appealing to you both, as a big factor to the proper enjoyment of something like this is the smell, it is the first step in setting the mood.