First, it's silicone and the photo doesn't do it justice. It's got a slight iridescent look to it. A larger head, slimmer shaft, very realistic looking. I wasn't sure that would be enough but the moment I put it in my hand, I knew!!!! And then, WOW!! IT HIT THE SPOT. This beats every other dildo I have ever owned, regardless of size. I would stay intentionally Single & avoid all the relationship drama with this one!!!!! It kept giving and giving, no letdown, ladies!!!