Ok ,ready for this ! It's all about being open with your spouse about your sexual desires , amazing things can happen. My wife and I have purchased sex toys from Pink Cherry.com rarely finding ourselves dissatisfied because of the ratings and reviews. I first purchased the same dildo in 6" and the vac u look harness along with the INTIMATE EARTH SOOTHE Lube along with a number of other items maybe 2 years ago. It is without any question, having compared, well... it will rock her world . My wife hits all time highs when I use my hand to maneuver while during oral. Well I choose to buy this 8" last year to further intensify her "O s".Both sizes , even the balless slim 7" is slimmer for starters, recieve my highest awards. Cleans up easy , durable, feels real to the touch , warms easily. Ok , now for the rest of the truth ! Three yrs ago I had my prostate removed at 59, Doctors told me my sex life would never be the same. No more semen , no erections , WHAT! Well I accepted, explored my options through the aide of PINK CHERRY , adapted WELL to the change. I purchased the top rated Bathmate HYDROMAX X30 and 3 small jelly cock rings to hold the blood to my erection, finding incredibly pleasing results. Also, purchased a Fleshlight for solo to find if I would ever experience an "O". Yes and yes even better when I suction the 8" dildo to the shower wall to increase my intensity for solo anal. My legs shook when I finished.My wife excerpts and LOVES to ram it home while giving me head. Case in point, explore your options and never give up on your spouse/ partner. LOVE CHANGES EVERYTHING!